contraction begin!!!

Joel is sick & had put him to sleep....I'm gng to sleep thereafter....but the compressing feel last for an hr....bb keep kicking me inside & dancing non-stop....so I guess the contractin is started.....faster I wake hubby up..... Cleaning myself (shower) & prepare everything...get ready go to hospital...it is the contraction just started, so I still got no pain..... If it is not time yet, then Mai go bek home la.... Better b safe as 1st time experience.....Arrival at hospital, they inspect me & chk if I'm really ready for labor...YES!!!!! IS real contraction begin......

It is really pain.....now ONI I feel the real contraction pain....even pain killer also not work anymore.....I put epidural as really BEHTAHAN!!!!! thought can normal labor....but still cannot...coz cervix is not open..after 15 hrs waiting....cervix ONI open 2cm....so decide to c-sec....else waiting longer also no use.....result will b the same....

pic 1: see how pale i am...lying on the bed for long period and pain....


pic 2: at last, my princess is arrive


pic 3: scar on the face cause by the casaer cutting


pic 4: eyes open


pic 5: first yawning



pic 6: being transfer to deluxe room the next day.....


pic 7: see how big is the room....more comfort now


pic 8: preparing to discharge soon


pic 9: congrates card frm the medical ctr


pic 10: note....

is 39weeks liao

Is my 39 weeks now & I still got no sign of laboring.....so keep continue working till my labor come la...else sitting at home also bored...sit & eat at home.....tis week I lost weight....72kg which lost 1kg frm last week....should b waking up n d midnite.....as Joel is sick....need to wake up in d midnite few times.....

Since my MIL is here...she helps taking care of Joel....so no disturbing n frustration while waiting for doc...as the doc got laboring in wad...need to wait tax least 1/2day....after tat v been to sunway as is the nearest shopping mall.....wanna walk more as preparation.......easier for labor later as ppl alwiz said.......tis week wanna eat good food as after deliver need to eat confinement food for a mth ...then need to avoid other foods for at least 100days....so decide to have Steak at Tony Roma's....very full n yummy....

pic 1: i had chicken meal



pic 2: hubby had fish meal




pic 3: fresh lemonade

my 38th week preg

tis few weeks i might b eating alot...gaining about 1kg within a week...bb weight oni 2.87kg, which oni gaining 0.2kg approximately.... stretch mark as usual very obvious & i can feel itchyness... hope it will disappeared after delivery...

Joel is not ard.....as I took fri leave for chk up....so after chk up v been to Sunday....had BarBQ steamboat.....mmmmm.....not tat special...s/more expensive than the normal steamboat......


pic 1: the pork set



pic 2: getting started soon



pic 3: bbq time



pic 4: after lunch...nice xmas deco

is my 37th week preg

im now require to have a weekly chk up....the last mth of my 3rd trimester.... so anytime will be due.... tis week i can maintain my weight...no changes compare to last 2 weeks...oni bb gaining... now she is 2.67kg...... my tummy feel like not bigger than my 1st pregnancy.... however, my stretchmark seen very obvious.....my 1st preg also din seen any stretchmark....need to continue using stretchmark lotion after deliver later.....

my 35 weeks preg

times flies...another mth is my due....feeling so excited....waiting the days...bb gaining very fast nowadays...now she's weighing 2.58kg...gaining another 0.5 kg...while im gaining too...im weighing 71.8kg...wow....ttl gain abt 14.8kg......hope manage to reduce after birth.....need to do lots work out ....

my preg now
as usual after consultation we went for window shopping...tis time v been to mid valley....trying to get a pair of crocs...but the design im finding was out of stock....as it is old model.... nvr...guess can get it in pirated 1...hehe..... heard frm colleagues there is new opening of snowflakes at top floor...so going for the dessert.....got a new flavour...sesame peanut sensation...taste nice.....the flakes ice is made frm peanut...so creamy....u must try it...as it mix with black sesame ball.....

my 31 weeks preg

now i need to return for chk up every 2 weeks...now im weighing 70kgs....wow.....tat's gaining me alot...a ttl of 13kgs.... and bb oni weight abt 1.5kg.....tummy day by day getting bigger & bigger & feeling heavy load as well.... tis time doc said my weight is normal compare to last visit, as gain not much.... now planning for normal birth instead of c-sec.... wanna try as being a women... hehe... but according to doc, there is a risk uterine rupture, but as low as 2% only... so im gonna make it a try...if less say it is over my due date...then i will go for c-sec....as dun wan repeat the same scenario again during 1st laboring....

my 7th mth preg

it was my 1st time been the 1st patient visit the doc today...really wake up early in d morning...at 6am...coz need to have a diabetic blood test....fasting since yest nite till today 11am..really feel hungry....s/more taken me 2japs of blood....gosh!!

im now weight at 69.4kg.....wow...increase alot yea....same as wat doc said...but bb oni weight abt 1.2kg oni nia.....all the weight came frm mine....it might b the milk powder effect....as wat doc said milk powder got the hidden calories....not oni the food...as im not the heavy eater either...normal diet as b4 preg....cant imagine how much i will later after my pregnancy....

the buzy body trying to get a posing too

seems like he's sayang the little 1

my 6th mth preg

time really flies like airplane... im now 6mths preg liao & gain alot...in total i gain abt 9kgs....but doc said it is too fast for my weight increase.....so have been book for next mth diabetic blood test....a full blood test since my mom got diabetese history....mmmm....but i think tat gaining 2kilos mthly shuld b a normal range....just d doc got high requirement... need the patient to have a perfect pregnancy....hahaha....i guess....but my bb oni weight 669grams...so the total gain is frm mine....sad....now i feel more & more loaded...esp when eat too full...feel uneasy....cant take large portion of full meal...else i will b suffer.....cant sit well..... hope tis preg ended soon la...

my 5th mth preg

is mine 5mths preg now....seeing doc today...weighing abt 64kg now...gain about 7kgs in ttl now....feel more heavier now.... today manage to knw the gender liao....is a gal gal!! mmmm..... seems like all the clothing & toys need to have a new 1... as joel's toy mostly is car, lorry, truck...etc..... tis time planning to have an album of my pregnancy.... after came bek frm clinic, & wait for joel asleep, hubby start work liao.... had a photo shooting.... below is his works!!!

16 weeks

m now 16 weeks of preg....went to chk up today...gainning alot...now im weighing 62kgs...OMG!!!! cant imagine how heavy i m when i m 9mths preg later.....

after chk up v went to sunway for lunch...at tis Ninja Joe restaurant...specialty in pork burger fast food rest.....few flavour to choose...the more ninja u buy the more saving u get.....not too bad....

sweet & sour ninja + fatty fries

the pork burger...size abit small

vege tempura

my 2nd pregnancy

get really tired as need to take care of joel while get not enough sleep....esp when joel is awake during midnite or making cranky noise without concious.... now i still can cope as tummy still small...haha...12 weeks preg only...later really cant imagine how i can cope when i was 7-9mths preg later.... my behavior getting angry so fast...and get hunger very fast...since last mth doc visit compare to this mth...i gain 3kgs....wow!! tat's alot...need to control....but s/time really cant control as when im getting hungry, my body got no energy and shaking...OMG!!.... wish mr preg will end fast....

confinement....

confinement period is d most hard time to pass...imagine cannot shower, cannot wash hair, dun have fan to get wind, everyday eat d same food, etc...... :-( really hard to go thru....let me explain y i say so...

besides those do's & don's, i got lots of dissatisfaction along d period....haiz...which make me regret comin back to my in-law house for confinement...everything i bought for my son is not rite...which complaint by my MIL...she's not complaint in purpose but is a complaint la...watever i do is not rite, watever she does is d rite thing....diapers wanna complaint, bath towel wanna complaint, milk powder wanna complaint...haiz..much more...however, d bath towel v bought together...mayb she forgot abt it, but i been blame of buying such thick towel which not suitable for bb...haiz..i had been ask tis quest b4 "isn't tis towel too thick?"...she said it suitable lor....now complaint...u c la...suffer facing her d whole mth which complaining so much....& d worst part is asking us y buying so much milk powder? tis can last for more than a yr...& it is very heaty.....wat??? a yr?? must b kidding....now i dy using up 3packs...left 5 packs...my son eat a lot...when i gave breast milk then complaint my son boo boo a lot...must b d breast milk....then saying tat all his children never took breast milk also can grow healthy....haiz...nothing to say liao...

my son got special eye, haha..."yin yeong" eye....1 got double eyelid & 1 dun..so my MIL said those word like blaming me of doin d wrong things...not oni her, hubby also blaming me for some reason....helo!! it is quite normal of getting yin yeong eye....1 like me & 1 like hubby cannot meh....i really feel very upset of him!!! but lastly, he apologize...but word out r hard to take back...wat to do...just keep in heart lor....

my MIL still taking care for his daughty's children...who was very naughty....always cried for food & for anything....touch everything...even uncook rice also eat....so my MIL get stress up...everyday get angry & bang all d stuff in d kitchen...make me & my son cannot rest in peace...s/more i also need to take care of this little fellow as well....haiz....how can i get enough rest leh....ppl said must sleep & lying on bed most of d time...how i can do tat leh...tat little fellow need 24hrs eye on her....even i need to get my son up frm sleeping to give her d sarung to sleep...imagine how suffer v r....i really really regret gng back ther for confinement...

lucky can go back after d fullmoon....at last!!! c my son shave botak liao...

hard time had passed

hi all...im back!!! at last tis difficult time has passed...it been a very memorable experience i ever had...lets heard my story....

on the 7th early morning ard 5am i'd wake up & prepared to go hospital...once reach ther d nurse dy start to prepare d induce...let me had my b/fast & pass motion 1st....then started to put a pill on my ... been waiting so almost 7-8hrs liao but still no further symptoms....my cervix just open oni 1cm...how to wait for another 9cm in order to deliver leh...in + my bb dy passed motion in my tummy...so doc advice need surgery....walau ei....those nurse so kan cheong & panic....make me panic as well....scary...tears also comin....they put d urine bag & all d neccesary....wahhh....damn painful....doc gice option very wan epidural or choose those sleeping 1...so i choose sleeping....better...else more scary when c doc operate me....once done, d nurse wake me up...arrrgggghhhhh!!!! damn painful...s/more they change me to other bed so tat can pull me to d patient room....walau...d nurse so chou lou...ppl pain dy s/more make ppl more painful...while changing d bed, my tears drop...can imagine how pain i m... :-S so tis little fellow was bring out liao....

once i fully awake, hubby very excited & show me d pic of our son....i can feel he was so happy.....in d evening, d nurse bring my son in my room, asking me to breast feed...walay ei...ppl still pain, cannot move...s/more asking ppl breast feed...of coz i told them to feed him 1st la....but everyday nurse will bring him for feeding....few times/day....to stimulate wah....c how excited hubby was....

40 weeks

today is my 40 weeks of preg....measurement of my tummy in my last mth of preg is 42cm, weight abt 73.5kgs (hehe...so heavy liao...gain 16.5kgs in ttl) & my bb just weight abt 3.2kgs oni.........(suppose my due date as well). still no signal of laboring. ppl said 1st bb will not b punctual, & mostly will early. but for me either way. waiting till now still no signal....so today c how doc will say...at last, doc give d decision to us whether wanna wait for d pain to come 1st or induce....& v had decided to induce on 7th Aug as on the 8th is fully book....wow...so many ppl delivering on tat day....if my contraction pain last for more than a day then deliver date will b on 8th....mmmm...c when my bb gng out la.... however, ppl said on 8th Aug is not a gd day in chinese calendar...but for me i got no pantang.... :-)

once i decided to induce (chui sang) on the 7th, i started to panic & scare....very soon...day after tomoro....so gonna left blogging for a mth later....FYI i'll b gng to Sunway MC on the 7th Aug, 6am....(sooo early)..but deliver time depend la..doc said contraction pain will takes abt 8-12hrs....

after chkup i had dinner at Station 1 cafe...had a glass of strawbarry milkshake & chicken maryland....mmmm...gng to miss tis meal for a mth.....

4 more days to go......

at last august come....ther is another 4 days to go reaching my due date...however, since last sunday nite.....i haven got any signal....might b overdue? mmmm....mayb....can wait for 080808?? let's get advice frm doc....else need to "chui sang" liao....

so today went to supermarket jalanX2 lor.....ppl said walk more ma....so tat easy laboring later...walk for almost 2hrs liao...till leg also cramp....mmmm...got a bit of tummy compressed feeling...who knw mayb will deliver tonite....hehe...so wait for my gd news.....

39 weeks

another 6 more days to reach my due date...wow..wow..wow...very soon~~anytime frm now can admit liao...my bb now struggling almost all d time....esp d 1st false alarm on sunday nite tat day....my tummy was compressed down to my cervix...bb kicking me almost 2hrs....thought it was due dy....however, cannot feel any contraction pain...so d next day went to consult doc 2 chk whether cervix open liao mei....so not yet but bb head dy facing down near to the cervix....anytime frm now....

38 weeks

tis week will b my 38 weeks of preg....anytime can deliver liao, just wait for d time to come...if u din c me online or no update on my blog, mean tat i dy admit for delivering....

my son now weight abt 3kgs dy... haha.. doc said estimated will b 3.2-3.3kgs upon delivered....mmm.. consider just nice rite...not too fat nor too skinny.... :-) my tummy measurement is abt 41cms...wow...haven had such big tummy b4.. hehe...

at tis time, curiousity was in my mind....who will my son look alike? me or my hubby??haha....wat's his skin fairness was? think so much now...im sure all expecting mum will have such curiousity in their mind as well..... :-P

37 weeks

now im gonna do check-up once a week liao...coz almost due ma...so tis week will b my 37 weeks of preg....mmmm....less than a mth to go...so nervous, excited & much more feeling ard....can't express it out...tummy getting bigger week by week & bb getting less spaces to move ard....haha...& he is kicking me so hard today..even when doc do scanning he moved ard..can c my tummy moved....:-) he had reach maturity stage now...anytime can meet "mama & papa".... :-D

9 mths

another mth to go (or mayb less)....now is my 9 mth preg dy (36 weeks)...time flies, so now counting d days to come. feel very excited cum nervous...c my tummy boom so fast these 2 weeks....& my bb moving so actively as he is now 2.7kgs liao...my body getting heavier & feel very uncomfort during sleeping...need to find d best position.....hehe...im now also getting hungry so fast & need to eat extra portion...else bb will kick u for food...huh...i gain abt 15kgs in total...:-( need to stress more after give birth (keep back my figure ma)

my body temperature seems getting higher & higher...as i can feel d heat....i sweat easily even when i eat & walk...mayb coz of d hot wheather as well...hope d wheather will change during my confinement period.....:-P

34 weeks

today is my 34 weeks of pregnancy check-up...my son now weight abt 2.3kgs...wow...he gains another 0.5kgs in these 2 weeks...he is very active nowadays...even when doc scan him, he moved alot & actively...

doc had suggested to use epidural (kind of pain relief during labouring)...mmmm....mayb shuld consider....just feel the numbness during labouring...scare la...pain!! anywher doc will advice more in when it is due soon....

however, my appedite still d same...not so craving for food...as i feel my tummy flood...if i eat too much sure feel very uncomfortable...so just eat a normal portion. after d check-up, we went to "Station 1" cafe for dinner...manage to finish whole set of chicken maryland.....hehe :-)